I want answers from mature men please, I have skin problems?

March 23, 2010 by admin · 23 Comments
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skin problems
Kate asked:


I want adult serious answers please, none from young boys who think all woman look like big busty models. I have skin issues, I do have stretch marks because I use to be really overweight, I have stretch marks on my stomach, back, and sides.

I also have a skin pigmentation disorder, which causes me to get small spots smaller than a dime, some larger on numerous places on my body, they are usually a few shades darker than my regular skin. Yes they can be temporally treated but I’ll have them for the rest of my life and they come back.

I was wondering would you still date a girl that had the perfect personality, and just beautiful even if she had some minor skin problems?
Is everyone on here seven?
I don’t have a disease, it isn’t contagious.. they’re just just spots!
I still wear a bikini! I’m comfortable with myself just worried others won’t be.

Comments

23 Responses to “I want answers from mature men please, I have skin problems?”
  1. jah says:

    i doubt you have a perfect personality jah

  2. dexter111344 says:

    If she was okay with anal, yes. Definitely. Not enough women know the joys of anal. dexter111344

  3. Matthew Allen says:

    Yes, I would. In a heartbeat.

    Can you answer mine? Matthew Allen

  4. common sence says:

    Yes for sure.Personality is most important in my mine. common sence

  5. Cristina says:

    i’m not a guy.
    i just wanted to tell you that you are very brave for putting this question out there, i wouldn’t have the guts to air my insecurities on the internet.
    i’m sure you’ll find someone. nobody’s perfect Cristina

  6. A Relentless User says:

    First, I would help you see a doctor, and see what happen, if we were dating, but you need help first, I have to do that. If I was dating you. Im not saying mean way or insulting you, I would helped you to feel better.

    Im a guy who is young and 20 yrs old. I told you what I would do. A Relentless User

  7. nakedgie says:

    Well two out of three men can overlook it if they can have your a$$.I am proud to be a man today.Oink Oink nakedgie

  8. Dan says:

    I highly doubt that you have a perfect personality. I could care less about the skin problems as long as they’re not that noticeable. Dan

  9. Georgia Hillbilly says:

    i sure would if you have a nice personality! Thats most important! Georgia Hillbilly

  10. edwardwarior says:

    congratulations on the weight loss! For me looks aren’t everything. as long as you remain confident, then you can always find the right guy. you will never fail if you never stop trying! edwardwarior

  11. amir.johnson@ymail.com says:

    Perfect Personality and beautiful Wow maybe thats the reason you cant find a man your too bigheaded LOL i wounded mind that is not like your walking around naked :) and is 50 50 is looks and personality that what boys want trust me… dont listing to the people that say its all about personality its a lie LOL amir.johnson@ymail.com

  12. Chris S says:

    haha, nah, not everyone on there is seven. they are just guys.

    anyways, yea i would still date a girl like that. the pigmentation disorder isnt bad, if it was a different color say red or something, it may be a little different. but if it is only a few shades darker, it isnt a problem.

    a lot of girls have stretch marks , so, that isnt a problem either Chris S

  13. Bob Bobbinz says:

    sure looks isn’t everything. just be confident and don’t worry about it or anythig while talking to men :) if you go out thinking “oh he seems nice but what if he finds these blemishes and runs a mile” he’ll notice that you’re holding back and not know why so maybe that’ll cause him to run Bob Bobbinz

  14. Buster says:

    My sister has the same skin problems that you talked about. She has been happily married and has even worked as an airline hostess in the past. She is very beautiful and remains so today.By your photo you look like a knockout. I would not let a small skin problem deter me from a relationship with a girl like you that has allot to offer. Buster

  15. Jason Y says:

    In my book, personality always comes first when trying to meet new people. Looks and appearance are important yes, but personality always overrides a person’s appearance. I mean, it’s like the saying goes, you can’t judge a book by its cover. If a girl makes me happy just through their personality, I wouldn’t mind getting to know them better. Of course it varies from man to man, but that’s just my take on it. :)
    And it sucks knowing that you have some sort of disorder for the rest of your life, I’m the same way; I was born with Kleinfelter’s Syndrome, but knowing that I have a flaw in my genetic make up does not stop me from pursuing my dreams, and it shouldn’t stop you from pursuing yours either.

    I hope this helped. :) Good luck out there. Jason Y

  16. Red Becki says:

    Here’s the 411 on that, as long as you don’t go 911 on the issue then the guy has no issue on it!

    When you are totally secure with who you are you become so very HOT!!! regardless of 7 layers of scare tissue or even missing a breast like I am! And I run with the AAA crowd! If you do not believe in yourself no one else ever will!

    . Red Becki

  17. dude says:

    Yeaah I think you’re right everyone on here is seven.

    People may be attracted by looks at first, but personality determines the length of a relationship. dude

  18. T0NY says:

    Are you crazy?

    Don’t be worrying about such a minor detail, if you put a big emphasis on that so will we. Personally i would, if you say your personality is enjoyable then yes.

    [TONY] T0NY

  19. optimuschris says:

    Only if she was also morbidly obese. Because hey, if you’re gonna go slumming, you might as well go all the way. Do you do anal? If so, drop me a note. optimuschris

  20. Astaroth says:

    Nothing wrong with stretch marks, they are a sign of life and experience. My wife got them when she was growing up and I think they are really attractive. Skin pigments? Used to be called beauty spots if I remember correctly. Adult males understand that there is more to a female then the visual appearance of the skin (I like the different textures myself)

    Not everyone are seven but yes, just managed to give four thumbs down in quick succession. This is what happens when you allow stupid people access to computers. Astaroth

  21. mathew j says:

    well to be honest all of the small things add up to the big picture. Wouldn’t rule out some one with a skin disorder but the severity of it would make a difference. I mean if its small spots that’s one thing if it is open sores then that’s another. it depends on the other person as well. for example if you had a great personality and a hot body and loved all the things i loved but didn’t bathe regularly then that would be enough for me to exclude you but there are others who would be willing to overlook that. mathew j

  22. rast29 says:

    wouldn’t bother me rast29

  23. Andres c says:

    ok i would
    i love girls with a good personality
    than to be stuck up..
    you gotta be pretty to
    you dont have you be like hot hot
    i would date you.
    umm those shouldnt really be any problems
    when it
    comes to sex i dont think the guy would really care as much..
    but like the other guys said
    anal you should do it
    guy would fall in love with you if you give him that…

    PUT ME AS BEST ANSWER Andres c

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